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The Art Of Conversational Blogging

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The Art Of Conversational Blogging

When someone reads your blog their first reaction should not be, “Who talks like that!” If you are using the thesaurus every time you write a post and add words that you would never use if you were speaking face-to-face with a friend its time for a little lesson. Blogging is a conversation and I have some tips to help you connect with your readers on a more personal level by learning the art of conversational blogging.

Blogging and talk radio have a lot in common

Wild Bill doing his radio talk show at IHOP

On my radio show I talk to many callers each day. Blogging may seem different than doing a radio show but really its not. Callers respond, get fired up, and want to call the show and join in on the conversation. Blog readers might not hear your voice with their ears, but they get a feel for who you are by the words you use and the style you write.

When I write the opening monologue I am going to use on my radio show I read it out loud to make sure it sounds like a real conversation. When you read something on air (unless you are a 20 year professional) it sounds like you are reading. There is an art to reading something out loud and making it sound like you are not reading and if you want to be successful in radio and blogging you need to master this art.

When I write a blog post I read it out loud before I ever hit the publish button. If the post does not sound like a conversation I would have with a friend then I rewrite the post until it seems like a perfectly natural conversation. Your friends don’t want you to read the encyclopedia to them when you are talking to each other and neither do the readers of your blog. Write like you speak and you’ll find your readers responding to you like you are their best friend.

Ask questions?

Do you ask your readers questions that they feel compelled to respond to?

Ask questions?

This is an old radio trick. I start each hour of my show with a question that has to do with what I we will be talking about that hour and it helps to get the listeners thinking about how they would answer the question. The next 15 minutes of my radio show I outline a story and add a personal story about how I relate to the story and why the story is important for them. I give the listener a feeling of why I am personally passionate about the story and then ask some additional questions of the audience about how they personally relate to the story, their insights, and to call me because I really want to hear their views and opinions on the topic we are discussing.

The last 15 to 30 minutes of the hour I take phone calls from passionate listeners. If you have done your job right as a talk radio show host or a blogger the phone lines or comment section of your blog lights up with callers and comments. Wouldn’t you like to get hundreds of comments on a story you have just posted to your blog? Do you ask your readers questions? I’d love to hear from you on your successes with asking readers questions and some of the amazing responses you have received.

A conversation is a two way street

A conversation is a two way street

There are very few bloggers and radio talk show hosts that can spend everyday talking without taking callers or responding to comments. Do you want your readers to feel like you are out of their league and they are wasting your time writing comments on your blog that you will never respond to? If you want readers to use some of their valuable time commenting on your blog then the conversation must be a two way street.

When a reader takes the time to comment on your blog then you respond to their comment this is a great way to get hundreds of comments and great way of making new friends online. How long would you talk to a person that ignored you, wouldn’t make eye contact, and acts like you do not exist? Chances are you would move on and find someone that is actually interested in what you have to say. Same goes for blog readers, they might read your blog, but they learn very quickly whether you are a person they would like to call a friend or whether you are a blow hard that is only interested in yourself.

Are you a conversational blogger?

How do you make your blog posts more conversational? There are many bloggers and new blogger that want to learn how to get more comments, engage their readers, and inspire them to leave comments on their blog. Tell us about some of the ways you make a conversational blog!

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  1. Do you ask your readers questions that they feel compelled to respond to?

    Why would I do that? I hate my readers. I’m always right and they’re always wrong. They need to just shut up and listen to me.

    Kidding aside, write some posts that serve one purpose and one purpose only - reader interaction. I do this with my weekly flame war parody that I call the Sunday Retarded Argument. Even if you hate my conservative politics and my repugnant posts about eating babies, you should enjoy the Sunday Retarded Argument… Except the ones about eating babies.

    They’re definitely the most commented upon posts each week and that’s because they serve the sole purpose of reader response.

    BTW, I encourage everyone to join in the fun every Sunday.


  2. Wild Bill,

    I try to relate to my readers by addressing them directly as much as possible in my posts and also by signing off at the end of each post with a friendly closing and my first name.

    I encourage my readers to comment by directing a few questions to them at the end of each post–some more general ones (i.e., “Did you enjoy this post?” “Have anything to add?”) and one or two specifically targeted to the topic of the post. I also usually end the question section with something along the lines of “I’d love to hear your thoughts!”

    Aside from that, I always reply to comments — most often individually — addressing each commenter by name and treating each with friendly respect and goodwill. I feel that addressing each commenter individually (even if doing so in a group comment occasionally) and treating each in a manner that makes him/her feel happy to have contributed are critical for letting my readers know how much I value their input.

    Finally, I publish a comment-recognition post near the beginning of each month, recognizing, thanking, and linking to those who have commented at Writer’s Notes during the previous month.

    All these practices help demonstrate to my readers/commenters that they’re an essential, respected, and appreciated part of the Writer’s Notes conversation.

    Thanks for a fantastic post!
    Jeanne


  3. Nice post.

    In the past, I’ve done more of the magazine-style blog post, just writing on topics I enjoy, making money from the advertising, and not worrying about building a community. After all moderating comments and engaging folks can be time consuming! (Yeah, yeah, the lazy introvert confesses all.)

    But it’s clear that the web is developing into more and more of a social beast, and I’m trying to work hard to being more of a community creator with my new blog. I’m trying to remember to ask questions now and then or encourage readers to leave comments. :)


  4. Dude, Passionate America is gone. You must have allowed the domain to expire. WTF?


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